People assume my mom isn't a feminist because she's a stay at home mom.

FALSE.

My mom CHOSE to be a stay at home mom.  If she wanted to work (other than taking care of the house and my sisters, which, really, is the hardest job in the world), then she would.

If my dad tried to stand in the way of her going back to work, she wouldn’t listen to him and would do it anyway.

Just because you’re a stay at home mom doesn’t mean you’re not a feminist.

Part of feminism, a big part, is having the option and ability to make choices for yourself, not have society or your partner dictate the choices you make.